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Thursday, May 27, 2010

On Lying about my Age

Here in Ireland most people wait to get married until their mid-thirties and then wait even longer to have kids. I think that trend is growing the States but it's still average (at least where I'm from) for a person to tie the knot in their mid-twenties and start a family shortly thereafter.

When people here find out my age and also that I'm married with a baby, they almost always comment "Oh! You are so young!" Yes, I suppose I am (26. Hubs will be 30 this year). I don't feel like I need to justify my life choices to these people, but I will say that it's getting a bit old and I am seriously considering lying about my age... to make myself older; just to avoid those almost pitying faces and "young" comments.

3 comments:

Vegemite Wife said...

Times have totally changed... My mum was considered ancient when she popped her first one out in the 1970's as a 30 year old!
Mid twenties is perfectly reasonable!

Liz said...

Take it in stride, darling. ;) People used to say this to me (Maybe since I'm bordering on 30 they don't act so shocked anymore?) and I just took it at a compliment. Yes, I am young. And you are not. Ha!

KD said...

Funny, I get comments about being old for having my first at 33 (nearly 34)! Ignore, ignore, ignore (as hard as it can be) and do your thing, mama.