Our Adventures Abroad

Moving!

2011-08-07T07:34:00.002+01:00

Our Adventures in Ireland are coming to an end. I will no longer be updating this blog, but please feel free to visit us at our new blog for a glimpse into a brand new chapter in our lives.

Happy Birthday!

2011-04-23T21:10:00.000+01:00

Happy First Birthday to my little lion man.

At his birthday party last weekend

A birthday picnic in the park, April 23

A more detailed post and update to come next week!

Happy St. Patrick's Day!

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Enjoy the day, wherever you are... Irish or not! Just promise me you won't drink any green beer. Make it a Guinness!!

Our Family

2011-03-12T10:41:00.001Z

Most days, it's just the three of us in the wide, wide world.

We have ups and downs and none of us are perfect, but we learn and grow together.

At the end of the day, I thank God that I get to walk down life's path with these people.

Mom's Visit

2011-03-10T10:05:00.002Z

My mom left on Tuesday after being here for 11 days. We had a marvelous time despite both Liam and I being sick for part of her visit. Poor Liam had an ear infection for the first few days she was here and after it cleared up we went on picnics in the park, did a bit of shopping on Grafton Street, saw the seals in Howth, went to lunch and coffee, and went for a beautiful walk up Killiney Hill with my mummy friends where we dined on olives, cheese, crackers and humus. We may or may not have enjoyed sips of prosecco and champagne....

Howth

Mom and I on Dun Laoghaire Pier

Kara, Jenny and their boys on top of Killiney Hill

Playing at H's house

Towards the end of the trip, I got hit with a nasty flu bug. It hung on for 4 days! I was so annoyed to be sick when all I wanted was to enjoy my mom's time here. On the other hand, I was so thankful to have her here to help with Liam. Not fun taking care of a baby while you're sick!

Watching mom leave was harder than ever before. Now, with Liam, I have this unrelenting desire to be nearer to our families. I want them to know him like we do. And I want him to know and love them like we do, too. It was incredible watching Liam fall in love with my mom. It makes me sad that we're not sure when the next time we'll see them will be. (probably this summer, one way or another)

"I love you, Grammy!"

We miss you so much!!

10 Months Old!

2011-02-23T16:07:00.000Z

10 months old

When I posted Liam’s last update he was 5 months old. He’s now twice that and I’m not sure how it happened! He doesn't seem like a little baby anymore... which is kind of sad, but great at the same time. Watching him become a little person with likes and dislikes and sense of humor has been more fantastic than I ever dreamed. I was afraid with Liam being so active and curious he would fast forget his mama and be constantly on the move. Much to my pleasure, my sweet boy loves to give his mama cuddles and will even sit on my lap for three books straight! He definitely keeps me on my toes 90% of the time though, but I wouldn’t change it a bit.

Stats:

Weight: at 9 months he was just over 21 lbs. I would guess he’s still in that range. (50^th percentile)
Height: 29 inches (70^th percentile)

What he’s doing:

Pulling himself up in his crib and on furniture
Starting to cruise between furniture
Says mama, dada, uh-oh (though it sounds more like uh-uh) & other strings of jibber-jabber
Understands “no” but usually disregards the command by cheekily smiling and continuing the behavior
Eats well! He has tried many, many foods and likes most things. I’ve discovered a dairy sensitivity which we’ll reassess when he’s 1.
Starting to sleep well at night – yay! He finally learned how to self soothe. He only needs about 10.5 hours at night though. I’ve tried everything to get him to sleep longer and he just won’t!
Takes 2 naps during the day
“Dances” to music
Has 4 teeth (top and bottom front two)
Absolutely goes nuts over Classical Baby. We watch it every day before his morning nap. He always waves when the "busy caterpillar" turns into a butterfly. It's so cute!

A few favorite photos from the past month:

Mommy and me at our friend Cecelia's house

Welcome, Auntie Kate!

Lunch at the Porterhouse in town

New cars from Gramma Irish!

Ready for the Ireland v France rugby match!

Liam's first Christmas

2011-02-18T10:46:00.002Z

A lot has happened in the months that have passed in my blogging hiatus, most of which I'll just skip over (Thanksgiving, my and hubs birthdays, etc) . Liam's first Christmas is not one of those events I can let slide by without notice! I'll let the pictures do the talking.

Liam with the Christmas package from Grammy and Grandpaddy!

After a trip to the A&E on Christmas Eve (we discovered L had croup, poor thing!) We let him open this lovely lion hat from his Grandparents, he smiles even when he's sick!!)

Christmas Day Liam was feeling much better

Christmas morning!!

Our little Santa

Santa and his elf (aka Henry B)

An out-take from the Christmas card photo shoot

A white Christmas in Dublin!

Apologies for the pictures being a little out of order. You get the idea! We had a great first Christmas with our little man despite the illness. We made the most of the situation and enjoyed some relaxing time, just the three of us. It was actually quite nice not to have any obligations, though we did miss our families dearly.

6, 7, 8, 9!

2011-02-17T11:07:00.001Z

Holy cow, I have a lot of catching up to do on my growing boy! In a little over a week Liam will be 10 months old! I'll give a proper update and progress report then. For now here are his "bunny and me" pictures from months 6-9.

6 months

7 months

8 months

9 months

We are having a ball trying to keep up with our very active little man!

Fresh Start!

2011-02-12T11:11:00.000Z

Gave the old blog a bit of a face lift in hopes that it would inspire me to get back at it! Here's hoping... the dilemma is: should I re-cap the last few months or just begin from the more recent past?

Comedy and Tragedy

2010-11-20T16:37:00.001Z

Aren't they the best?! Liam and Jude, October, 2010

Baptism Day

2010-11-19T20:51:00.000Z

The day after the Harvest Party was Liam's baptism. We had been looking forward to this day for a long time... we were exhausted from the festivities the day before, but ready for another fun day. It was a small affair with just family, but it was just perfect. Father Tom did a wonderful job and even forgave Liam when he knocked the anointed oil over on the alter. Oops!

Liam was fully immersed in the font and was a real trooper! After the Holy Water bath we dressed him in his grandfather's baptismal gown, which hubs wore as well. I think I should put him in dresses more often! I kid, I kid...

Waiting patiently...

"What just happened??"

"A bonnet, mom, really?"

Liam with his Godparents

Free Christmas Cards? I'm In!

2010-11-18T10:14:00.001Z

(For bloggers with a U.S. address only)

One of the mom blogs I follow recently posted about getting FREE cards from Shutterfly just by blogging about the photo site. Now that we have a darling baby, of course we want to include a picture of him in our holiday greeting, and after looking at what Stutterfly has to offer, I have to say there are several I love. I would buy them even if this offer didn’t exist.

Personally, I like the flat Christmas cards selection best – the ones printed on premium cardstock. Another one of my requirements is that the greeting uses the word Christmas and not Holidays. So many designs to choose from... the question is... what fits our family’s style best? Here are a few I’m considering:

This one is a good option if we want just one family picture, or one of just Liam, I think it's my first choice

Love this one too. Great for a single shot of the little guy

If I can't pick just one photo to go on the card, isn't this a cute option?

What's your vote? What are your favorites? Happy shopping!

A Michigan Harvest Party

2010-11-18T09:22:00.001Z

One of the highlights of our time in Michigan was the Harvest Party held at the Stover family house (aka: The Burrow, because it reminds us of the Weasly home in the Harry Potter saga). Most who came dressed up as it was the day before Halloween. It was great fun! I think the icing on the cake was that the party also served as a 30th birthday party for hubs - it totally caught him off guard when we brought out the cake and a giant photo board chronicling his life.

Chimney Sweep & Mary Poppins!

A wee Harry Potter!

Harry Potter & an adorable dalmatian with their grandparents, American tourists in Europe

Surprise!!

Next up.... Liam's big Baptism day.

Before I regale you with our U.S. trip...

2010-11-16T10:41:00.001Z

I've been tagged by Liz over at It Be Liz! And since I am a huge procrastinator, I'm going to complete this little survey before I sit down to tell you about Liam's second All American Tour. (I know... I'm also behind on his monthly updates!)

Here are the rules:

1. Link to the person who tagged you. .
2. Paste these rules on your blog post.
3. Respond to the following prompts.
4. Add a prompt of your own and answer it.
5. Tag a few other bloggers at the bottom of the post.
6. Leave "Tagged You" notices on their blog/Facebook.
7. Let the person who tagged you know when you've written the post.

(I'll do all of this except the last two :-P)

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1) The best investment you ever made:
My Wedding (Ok, so our parents helped out with that investment.)

2) If you could’ve written any book, directed any movie, and composed any song, which three would you pick:
Book: Harry Potter (I wish!)
Movie: It's a Wonderful Life
Song: Baby Got Back

3) Weirdest quirk:
I like the smell of skunk. It reminds me of summer.

4) One wish immediately granted:
A great job for Hubs next fall.
5) Most expensive hobby:
Travel or clothes shopping

6) An inexhaustible gift-card at which store:
I'm with Liz on this one. Target.

7) In another lifetime, you’d be:
A bird.

8) The most famous/interesting member of your family tree:
Joe Dimaggio. My Grandma's cousin.

9) What would you say to your teenage self?
Wax your mustache, fool.

10) What do you want to be when you grow up?
Producer of a TV show on TLC (I'm not telling my idea because I'm not grown up yet - there is still hope!)

EDIT**

Forgot to tag!
I think most of the people I follow have already been tagged so I just have two: Liz & Heidi

Five Months!

2010-09-23T08:54:00.003+01:00

Liam, 5 months!

Today my baby boy is 5 months old! The past month Liam’s personality has really started to emerge. I think he’s a lot like his mama in this department – very friendly and ready with a smile; but there is no denying that he looks just like his daddy! That nose! Those eyes! Not to mention the size of him; he is such a chunk and so tall! He is getting really heavy and I definitely can no longer cradle hold him with one arm. Teething is on in full force (still!) I can still see the little buggers under his gums – just bust through already, I say! Let’s get this show on the road!

Also this month Liam had his second travel adventure, this time to Paris to visit his daddy. Though he was generally good on both flights, it was really exhausting for me! (See this post for more on our trip).

Here’s what the little lion is up to this month:

A week ago he weighed 16 lbs 12 oz., jumping into a new percentile curve – around the 70^th. Not sure how tall/long he is.
Wearing mostly 6-9 month clothing now. A few 3-6 things still, but also a few 9-12.
Now rolling over from tummy to back with ease. Though he seems to be over rolling from tummy to back now!
Sleep is pretty unpredictable. Some nights he only wakes once, and others as many as 5 times! The good news is that on some occasions he can sooth himself back to sleep without me going in.
Still being breastfed, but have added rice cereal in the evening (right after he turned 4 months) and just recently pears in the morning. He LOVES food! He grabs the spoon to try to feed himself and is so smiley for the whole process. I think we might try apple next. (I puréed the pears myself and intend to make his other foods, too. It’s so easy!)
He’s been saying “mamamamama” for a couple of weeks now! If only he knew he was saying my name!! Regardless, I love it!
Grabs for whatever I have: coffee cup, remote (his favourite! Typical man, right?), food, phone... etc.

Favorites from month 5!

Our little family in Paris

Liam loves jardin du Luxenbourg!

A coffee break at Starbucks for some mom lovin's

Good buddies with auntie Kara

Meet Me Under the Eiffel Tower

2010-09-19T20:36:00.000+01:00

We had a wonderful weekend with hubs/daddy last weekend, despite the challenges of traveling alone with an almost 17 lb baby. We soaked up our long weekend and also managed to take in some of Paris' great sights and attractions.

A few tidbits from our holiday...

Liam did great while we were in transit, but keeping him happy was challenging. Another set of hands would have been very helpful!
Seeing hubs at the arrivals gate made my heart skip a beat and a lump form in my throat. It was so good to be back in his arms.
We were a bit too ambitious on Saturday, and paid for it with a fussy baby. Note to self and other sightseeing families with small ones: GO SLOW! It's way too frustrating trying to fit too much in a day. In the end, everyone is grumpy!
We learned from our mistake on Saturday and had no agenda for Sunday, making for a happier time.
Hubs bought Liam a genuine French Sophie the Giraffe and she was totally a hit! Unfortunately she got dumped from the buggy to be lost forever. I think I was more sad about it than little L!
Leaving hubs on Monday was hard, as it always is to say goodbye. We parted and I didn't look back. Later J asked me why, saying he was sad that I didn't. I told him I would have lost it if I did, and I couldn't bear it knowing that I still have a long day of travel ahead.
Wouldn't you know they picked me to get patted down at security... meanwhile L is screaming. I was livid! I couldn't keep the tears back at this point. I struggled with my things (no help from the security staff) and carried on to my gate, looking like a hot mess, I'm sure.

So that's it in a nutshell. The pictures do the trip more justice than my hodgepodge bullet points. See for yourself!

I Must Miss Him...

2010-09-03T10:46:00.000+01:00

Yesterday was a brilliantly sunny day in Dublin and I found myself alone in the city wandering around. (Thanks for watching Liam, Steph!) I didn't quite know what to do with myself without a baby to tend to... my thoughts wandered mostly to my dear husband and at that moment I remembered all the fun we've had in this [great?] city... every landmark has a memory attached; so as I meandered around I found myself smiling as I thought about past adventures and lazy days in the park. I miss him.

On my first trip to Ireland in 2006! Photo taken at a bar in Dublin

Everyone Needs One

2010-08-28T20:21:00.000+01:00

Mine is this girl:

I am blessed to have several "best" friends, but Kara has been downright amazing throughout the time my husband has been away. She offers a listening ear and a home away from home whenever I need one. A big thank you to a very, very special person. Your kindness will always be remembered!

Buddies

2010-08-26T20:52:00.000+01:00

I think this is the beginning of a beautiful friendship...

(Photo taken by Kara)

Henry and Liam BFFs :-)

4 Months Old

2010-08-23T12:48:00.001+01:00

4 months old, August 23rd

Every time a month goes by I stare at my calendar in disbelief that so much time has passed. In all honesty, some days go by so slowly I feel like they will never end, and on the other hand, the rest go by so quickly I wonder what the heck I even did that day (it never seems like much!). Liam is adding new tricks to his repertoire every day and just like any other mother, I beam with pride at his tiny accomplishments.

We're managing alright without hubs/daddy but all of that is for another post. Here's what Liam has been up to in the past month...

5 days ago he weighed 15 lbs 6 oz and measured 26 inches long (tall?) The UK charts have him on the same curve he was on at birth - 51st for weight and 91st for height. I don't put a lot of stock in this but am happy he's been gaining and growing steadily.
He's still being exclusively breastfed and will no longer take a bottle. Darn!
That being said, we have started having him practice with the cup to avoid problems when I want to wean him.
He's beginning to try to roll from back to tummy, but gets stuck on his side.
Loves his refection, we call the baby in the mirror Mail. Haha.
He loves other babies. Especially his good buddy Henry!
Still teething, with nothing to show for it yet.
Grabs for toys and objects and puts them directly into his mouth!
Switched to the "big boy seat" in the buggy. He loves being able to see what's going on around him and this makes walks and outings much more enjoyable!

Favorite photos from month 4....

Steph and Liam watching Team Bearpark win their polo match!

"I love my new buggy seat!"

Hubs comes home to visit from ol' Paris... a lovely day on Dun Laoghaire Pier

"Don't drop me, dad!"

Initiation

2010-08-05T20:50:00.000+01:00

So, Hubs left for a fellowship in Paris two weeks ago tomorrow. Wouldn't you know that the very night he left me to be a single mother was the night the Lion got his first fever. Let me tell you: It was HELL. I knew my baby would eventually get sick, and I further knew that it would probably be awful. I did not know how completely helpless I would feel and how utterly sad and worried I would be. I have never heard him cry like that. His skin was so hot to the touch I thought he might catch fire. I called my mom crying in the middle of the night (still evening in Michigan) and she assured me we would both get through it advising me to do the things I already knew, but needed to hear again. Cold washcloth, bare skin, tylenol and motrin (here, calpol and nurofen), lots of fluids and a tepid bath if the fever does not relent. The Fever went on for 2 and a half days and on the second day (Sunday) I called my friend, Liz, who has a one year old. Surely she would have good advice! Her advice was the same as mom's but she could do what mother dear could not, come over to assist, nurofen in hand. We gave L the tepid bath, she phoned the after hours clinic and booked Liam an appointment, taking us to St. James a couple of hours later. God bless her.
So, we felt fever aftershocks for a good 5-7 days after the fact, fussy and lots of night waking, but things seem to be back to some semblance of normal. I think I passed initiation!

3 Months have Flown!

2010-07-28T18:39:00.000+01:00

Liam at three months

It's hard to believe Liam is now three months old. He has grown in so many ways and is developing quite the little personality! He had quite the third month with many firsts including his first international flight to the USofA and first meeting of his many adoring family and friends. He has also, unfortunately, experienced his first illness, a fever which was traumatizing for both baby and mom! Daddy had just gone to Paris so that made it a bit more of a challenge. Thank goodness friend Stephanie was here for moral support. Here are a few stats off the top of my head:

at 12 weeks Liam weighed about 14 lbs and was 24 inches long, I expect he is a bit bigger now, though the fever may have stalled growth for a couple days
He giggles more frequently now, but only when we make silly pig noises and other faces and sounds that make fools of us :-)
He rolls over very easily now both ways (tummy to back)
Loves tummy time and can lift his chest very easily off the ground
He is so active! When he is awake he demands to be entertained. He likes his doorway bouncer, grabbing his toys and stuffed animals and kicking on the activity mat
He has officially started teething which is where the fever came from, I think. He has two visible buds on his lower gums and is constantly gnawing on his fingers.
Still loves to be outside. The calming effect is amazing!

That's all I can think of off the top of my head. What am I missing?

A few photos from month three...

Happy boy (before the fever set in!)

On a walk by the canal

Steph's in town! Liam loves her :-)

Blessed

2010-07-05T12:51:00.002+01:00

My Grammy recently asked me (via email - yeah she's 81 and totally hip like that, although I think she might be WebTV's only customer!) if we were getting L baptized before our big USA trip. I really don't think my baby will go to baby purgatory if heaven forbid, our plane went down in flames. Didn't the Pope do away with purgatory anyway?? (hah.) But, since we are not planning to have Liam anointed with his first sacrament until our trip home, Gram's question got me thinking. So we decided to go to mass on Saturday and have the priest give the little guy a special blessing. L was great and the priest was very kind. I feel much better now.

The next day hubs went for a walk with L in the baby bjorn. As he was walking through town, he passed one of the many gypsies selling "The Big Issue" (the government pays them a wage to do this). As hubs and L passed the gypsy gave L her special blessing - you know the one, crossing herself and pointing to her eyes, then his.

I think Liam is all set now. Don't you?

Hey, Jude!

2010-07-01T10:25:00.005+01:00

Sorry about the title... had to!

Welcome to the world you little chubby cheeked cherub! I could just eat you with one million spoons. And when I meet you for the first time next Friday, I think I might!

An ocean and a few time zones apart... we still managed to get the families together for a meet 'n' greet when Jude was a mere one day old.

ETA: This is my sister's new baby (named Jude, if you didn't catch that) who is two weeks old tomorrow!

Liam at Two Months

2010-06-24T09:39:00.004+01:00

The Lion at two months!

It's hard to believe two months have flown past. Our sweet little boy has grown so much. His cousin, Jude was just born last week and looking at pictures of him in his newborn state makes me realize even more that every moment should be cherished and no two days will be the same. When I'm going crazy because Liam won't nap or spits up all over me and himself and we both need a change of clothes I need to remember that he won't be little for long. So, at night I'll rock him just a little longer than I need to, and kiss his cheeks just a few extra times... soaking it all in.

Liam definitely recognizes mom & dad's voices now and smiles often when he hears us.
He can see us and focus on our faces now, smiling back when we smile at him.
He loves to be outside. When he's fussy and hard to settle the breeze on his little face calms him down almost immediately.
Some of my friends have proclaimed him a divo (that would be the masculine form of diva) because he simply likes what he likes and refuses to be convinced otherwise.
He has teased up with a few 8 hour stretches at night but most nights wakes up once at about 3am after going to bed at 8. (Which I just counted and that's 7 hours - not bad either!)
Absolutely LOVES bathtime. This is hubs duty and they have so much fun!
He has rolled over from tummy to back a couple of times, but is not doing it consistantly
Weighs in (as of 9.5 weeks) at 12 lbs 14 oz. And is 24 inches long. He is a tall boy like his dad!
Is now wearing mostly 3-6 month sized clothing.

A few favorite photos from L's second month of life...

At Merion Square Park

7 weeks old

Cheeks to die for!

*Sorry I'm a week late with this! We've been outside enjoying the gorgeous weather!

On Lying about my Age

2010-05-27T10:52:00.002+01:00

Here in Ireland most people wait to get married until their mid-thirties and then wait even longer to have kids. I think that trend is growing the States but it's still average (at least where I'm from) for a person to tie the knot in their mid-twenties and start a family shortly thereafter.

When people here find out my age and also that I'm married with a baby, they almost always comment "Oh! You are so young!" Yes, I suppose I am (26. Hubs will be 30 this year). I don't feel like I need to justify my life choices to these people, but I will say that it's getting a bit old and I am seriously considering lying about my age... to make myself older; just to avoid those almost pitying faces and "young" comments.

One Month!

2010-05-24T18:36:00.003+01:00

I cannot believe one month has gone by already. Everyone says time will fly after you have a baby, but I had no idea I would blink and he would be one month old! The past month has been the most amazing, challenging, rewarding time in my life. I know that sounds cliche but truer words have never been spoken! We are totally, head over heals in love with little Liam. Here's what he's doing at one month on...

He's so alert and loves to be awake for all the action. In order for him to take a nap he needs to be removed from all stimuli.
He's lifting his head for about 5-10 seconds at a time during tummy time and can hold his head upright and steady when he's on my shoulder.
He was last weighed 5 days ago and was 9 lbs 15 oz. I'm fairly certain he's over 10 lbs now!
On a good night he goes to bed around 9 pm and is up at 1 and 5. But we've has several nights where he's awake every two hours!
He can focus on objects and faces - loves to look at his black and white rattle.
He smiles! Both mama and daddy have witnessed it. His little dimple makes me melt!

Here are a few favorite photos from the past couple of weeks...

I'm Getting a Wife!

2010-05-18T18:15:00.003+01:00

In this post you'll remember the tragic event that shook one of my best friend's world. After hubs and I racked our brains to figure out something we could do to ease the pain of her loss, even just a little, we decided to invite her to stay with us for up to 90 days* this summer to clear her head. Well, she's coming! And her timing will be perfect because just days after her arrival hubs is going to Paris for a 3 month fellowship. I was really worried about being a "single mom," but not anymore! Steph is super excited to help out with Liam and I am so excited to have her here for company, laughs and good old fashioned girl time. All of this has me thinking about the good times my old college roomie and I have shared... (too bad I couldn't dig up any photos from our college days! The following photos will have to do.)

My first trip down to Austin. We went hiking in sundresses. That's how we roll.

Steph's wedding - August 2008

Steph on a visit to MI while hubs and I were home for my sister's wedding in June 09

Can't wait to have you here, my dear friend!

*90 days is the max amount of time an American can stay legally in Ireland

Updates and Favorite Photos

2010-05-17T15:03:00.004+01:00

Since I don't have a ton of time to give a proper update I'll just jot down a list of the major stuff... here goes:

I was induced on April 22 (evening) and delivered Liam about 7 hours later - no complications, only 15 minutes of pushing, and best of all no tearing or episiotomy. Recovery has been great!
Mom and dad (aka Grammy and GrandPaddy) came to visit the day after we were home from the hospital. My mom's help and advice was invaluable!
Liam has already gained over a pound from his birth weight! He is breastfeeding like a champ.
Liam already has a little friend, Henry! They met last weekend and napped together, then woke up at the exact same time to eat. They are totally in sync!
Hubs is the most amazing father... seeing him as a daddy in action makes me love him even more - I didn't think it was possible!

And the pictures like promised!

Bliss

2010-05-17T14:56:00.002+01:00

Remember this post? Well... my dream came true. Pictured below is our first family walk through Herbert Park... under the cherry blossoms like I had imagined.

Meet Liam

2010-04-28T09:55:00.003+01:00

On April 23, 2010, at 3:30 am our lives were changed forever when this little guy made his appearance:

Liam Patrick

Stats: Weight: 8 lbs 6 oz, 21.5 inches long. Everyone is happy and healthy!

Peek-a-boo!

2010-04-02T12:17:00.003+01:00

Come out and play baby!! We can't wait to meet you!

Picture taken at 38 weeks

In a Moment, Everything can Change

2010-03-23T17:29:00.003Z

Steph and Michael at our wedding - so in love!

This morning I received devastating news. My dear friend Stephanie, lost her husband in a tragic car accident last night. He was driving home from work and lost control of the car.

Stephanie and Michael were one of those couples that other people envied. Smart, beautiful, and so obviously in love. They moved down to Austin, Texas together to start afresh in an awesome new city a couple of years ago and instantly fell in love with it. Though Steph has made friends in her new town she is far away from family and long time friends. Thankfully her mom is on her way down. It's torture knowing someone you love is hurting so much and not being able to offer a hug, a shoulder to cry on, or a hand to hold. I hope she knows my heart is with her.

"When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight."
Kahlil Gibran

Facelift

2010-03-15T13:57:00.002Z

So, what do you think? It seems that this "nesting instinct" has even followed me into the blogging world.

I like the new look - I think it's fresh and fun! It's certainly nothing I created myself (thanks, cutest blog on the block!) But I did modify the header a bit, which I'm quite proud of!

What are your favorite sites for blog extras, and what is your favorite editing program? I have a basic Photoshop program that I have yet to install; I think I'm a little frightened of it. Is it easy to learn?

35/35

2010-03-11T12:59:00.003Z

Today I reached a big pregnancy milestone. 35 weeks gone and 35 days to go!

Unbelievable.

I'll leave you with a photo that was taken a couple of weeks ago. I showed it to my mom and she said it looks like a boob. Whatever, I think it's cool!

Signs of Spring

2010-03-02T16:35:00.004Z

Spring has been a landmark of sorts for me since the cold weather set in, so on my daily walks I've been keeping an eye out for new sprouts and blooms. New life is on the way! The photos below were taken on my walk through Herbert Park this afternoon.

The trees that line the path at this park should be filled with cherry blossoms come April... I can't wait to stroll my baby through the pretty scene!

Rules for my Unborn Son

2010-02-23T18:41:00.005Z

Hubs received this book from his brother when we were home for Christmas and I have to say it is a real keeper! I agree with nearly all of the little tidbits which encourage your boy to be a gentleman. As I sit here writing this blog, with my baby boy hiccuping in my belly and squirming all about I am dreaming of the man he will someday become...

Here are a few of the pearls of wisdom I liked best:

Write letters. On paper.
Never request a joke or impression. They are never as good on command.
Always stop at a lemonade stand. Tip well.
Don't be afraid to ask out the best looking girl in the room.

and the best one...

Spend time with your mother. She's cooler than you think.

Our Valentine's Day

2010-02-15T13:47:00.004Z

We like to keep things pretty simple on Valentine's Day - no buying of elaborate gifts or fancy dinners for us. We do, however, like to acknowledge the day some way and while this year was simple, it was one of the best. There's nothing I love more than spending time with my best friend, my husband.

I had forgotten that Saint Valentine's relics were in a church in Dublin's city centre and was reminded by a friend last week. Hubs and I thought Valentine's day would be a good day to go see the relics, as it's the only day out of the year they put them out on display. The relics were gifted to the Whitefriar Street Church in 1835 by Pope Gregory XVI.

Whitefriar Street Church

Shrine to Saint Valentine

The box containing his relics which include his body and a cloth "tinged with his blood"

After seeing the relics, we stopped at a nearby coffee shop called The Bald Barista, which has, in my opinion, the best latte in Dublin. It's also the most reasonably priced!

My white mocha.... YUM! Not too sweet, piping hot, with good foam and a pretty design. What more can you ask for?

We headed home after ward for oven pizza and a movie double header of Dorain Gray (fantiastic!) and Pan's Labyrinth (4 stars).

All in all, just another day that I fell even more in love with my darling husband.

Let's Bee Friends

2010-02-14T10:11:00.004Z

Happy Valentine's Day!

(Image from Google Images)

I hope your day is filled with hearts and flowers and chocolates and all things lovey dovey.

Smarty Pants

2010-02-13T16:53:00.003Z

I'm so proud of my darling Hubs.

Last night he gave a talk for the Military History Society and knocked my socks off.

I think he looked so cute in his academic ensemble

Risteard Mulcahy, son of General Richard Mulcahy, Commander in Chief of the Irish Free State Army was even there.

I'm digging the bow tie, Risteard

Apart from him the audience comprised of about 50 older gentlemen in tweed jackets (some of them even donned a complete tweed suit - impressive!) And of course, I was there for moral support.

And today, he went into Dundrum to give a talk for a local radio station. The half hour program will air this Wednesday on 93.9 South Dublin Radio at 3pm GMT.

Gooooo, Hubs!

I WILL get back to this

2010-02-12T09:43:00.003Z

It's funny how many people tell me I will never look the same after I give birth. Maybe they just don't know how determined I am to be a yummy mummy.

I'll say it again. I WILL get this body back.

Photo taken in on our honeymoon in Nice, France. Oct. '08

All you doubters... You just wait!

Tagged! Happy 101

2010-02-11T15:48:00.004Z

Thanks for the tag, KD. :-)

Rules:

List 10 things that make you happy.

Pass it on to 5 bloggers that make your day a better one!

10 things that make me happy (completely off the top of my head):

Seeing the baby on the sonogram machine
A cuddle from Hubs at the end of the day
Sunny skies
A bubble bath
New shoes
Feeding the ducks at the park
A picnic
Reading a good book on a white sand beach with a cocktail in my hand. (Something tells me this won't be happening anytime soon!)
Looking through old family photos
Unexpected compliments

Since it seems all of my blogging friends have already been tagged, that's all, folks!

I'm Running out of Dishes

2010-02-07T17:00:00.002Z

Since I have been pregnant I have become more clumsy. And if you know me, you may be thinking, "how is that possible?" My parent's lovingly nicknamed me "Grace" when I was a child, and it wasn't because I was the top performer in my baton twirling class (yes, I took a baton twirling class). Let me tell you what I have broken so far:

1: A casserole dish full of sweet potato casserole (thankfully this happened the day after our Thanksgiving dinner). But I won't lie, I did cry when the glass and sweet potatoes were lying on bits on the kitchen floor - I was really looking forward to leftovers.

2: A dinner plate. Aren't those things supposed to be durable? This happened while I was taking said plate out of the cupboard. I swear it jumped out of my hands!

3: A bottle of extra virgin olive oil. This happened while I was reaching for something else in the cupboard. The olive oil got in the way and landed on the floor in a very glassy and oily mess.

4: A drinking glass. This isn't as unusual, but it should still be counted!

Here's hoping I will return to my normal state of clumsiness after the birth!

Faith in Humanity [temporarily] Restored

2010-02-05T13:14:00.003Z

Today I had an OB appointment. Up until I can no longer do so, I walk to the city center and then catch a bus from there to the office. So that's what I did today. The bus to The Coombe (that's the name of the hospital/private clinic - you can remember it because it rhymes with womb) was practically empty so I got a seat no problem. On the way home, however, the bus was packed. Standing room only. Right when I got on several people offered me their seat, and let me tell you, a tear came to my eye. It may sound like small potatoes, but it made my day that people were willing to give up their spot for a 7 month pregnant lady.

It also helps that the sun is shining today. It's a good day in Dublin!

Cravings

2010-02-03T19:21:00.003Z

One of my most frequent cravings in this pregnancy has been chocolate milk. But not just any chocolate milk. Irish milk and nesquik! I found out when I went home that American milk did not cut it. Oh how I love Irish dairy....

Let's Play Catch Up

2010-01-28T12:01:00.014Z

Since it has been a very long while since my last post, I should bring my dear readers (do I even have any anymore?!) up to speed. The past few months have been quite eventful!

I'll start right where I left off... just back from a lovely weekend at hotel in Cork...

Upon our return from our little holiday I felt a little off and decided to do a test to see if what I suspected was true... August 3rd, 2009, was the beginning of a new chapter in our lives:

Yep - Pregnant!

Not long after The Morning Sickness From Hell showed up at my doorstep. This ALL DAY sickness left me incapacitated and couch ridden for much of the first 5 months - hence my lack of communication in the blogging world.
In October, I decided to quit my job due to an unhealthy working environment. Suffice it to say I chose my integrity over a paycheck. Times are tough, financially, but I do not regret my decision for a minute
Later that month we debated whether or not to go on our 5 day trip to Northern Italy as planned. I was still feeling quite sick and now that we were out a paycheck we weren't sure it was a good idea. Since the plane tickets were already purchased and we really wanted to see the the country, we went anyway. We saw beautiful scenes like this around every corner:

Lombardy, Italy

Granted, I was sick for the whole trip, but gosh darnit I saw Northern Italy!
On November 22nd we celebrated my 26th birthday - we had lots to celebrate with our little buddy on the way!

Me on my birthday

A week or so later it was Thanksgiving. AKA: The best holiday ever. We made a lovely feast and invited a few close friends over.

r to l: Kara, Jo, Beth, Me

The next weekend Liz had all the girls over for our Secret Santa party - great times had by all! Liz was the hostess with the mostess. My gift? A lovely Irish ornament from Newbridge Silver and an Irish cookbook. Thanks, Aisling!

Hail, hail, the gang's all here!

Good friends, Candice and Brian came to visit shortly after. As always, it's fun to see the city like a tourist again :-) (Also, Congratulations to Candice who is pregnant too!)

Us at Stephen's Green

On December 18 we celebrated Hub's big 29th birthday - what an old man! We went to dinner at Maia, one of our favorites. And the next day we went to the David Gray (special guest, Regina Spektor) concert. David Gray was fantastic and played loads of his old stuff, which we LOVE. Brought back so many memories from the good old college days. I could have done without Regina - she has a couple of cute songs but she is no entertainer.

Happy 29, Hubby!

A few day later we were off to the USA for Christmas! It was a fantastic trip. We saw lots of family and friends and then we got sick of them and came home. Just kidding! Hubs left 2 weeks before me, I got to stay a whole month! (sorry I don't have any pics from Christmas on my computer yet)
While I was home my mom gave me a lovely baby shower where we received so many wonderful, thoughtful gifts for our little one!

Hubs especially loved the football themed clothes!

Now I am back in Dublin, living the life :-) I've seen several friends that I missed while I was gone and have signed up to volunteer at a yoga studio (they give free class passes with each shift worked!). I'm also in total "nesting" mode - the nursery is coming right along!
That pretty much sums up the last few months, more or less. I will leave you with a picture of me at 29 weeks pregnant...

29 weeks!

Comeback Kid

2010-01-15T18:14:00.003Z

I am making a comeback to the world of blogging upon my return to Dublin in late January! Be on the watch for a whole new look and updates on my comings and goings. See you all soon!

Away From it All

2009-08-06T09:48:00.006+01:00

Over the weekend Hubs and I visited a lovely secluded hotel in Cork. It was just what we needed - a break from the hustle and bustle and a breath of fresh air.

Let Agreed

2009-07-30T10:36:00.002+01:00

It's official! Hubs and I are movin' on up - out of our tiny one bed apartment and into a slightly bigger two bed (in the same neighborhood)! The lease was signed yesterday and we couldn't be happier to begin moving into our new place in just two short weeks. Pictures to come!

Lovely Dublin Weekend

2009-07-28T17:11:00.003+01:00

Another lovely Dublin weekend out and about for hubs and I! We didn't do much but weekend flew by anyway. Saturday night we participated in a pub-quiz at the Waterloo to benefit a friend of Hubs going to India with Habitat for Humanity. With the help of Simon and Liz (and not much help from yours truly) we won first place! We proudly took home the bottle of [cheap] Brut champagne... yum!

Saturday was pretty low key. We strolled through the city stopping in a few shops, and even ran into good friends Larry and Beth! Ha! Small city :-) We took a pit stop for a bite to eat at one of Dubliner's top rated spots Lolly and Cooks. The sandwich was just okay, but the lemon cupcake after (I know - totally not on the diet plan!) was divine!!

Pausing to admire the pretty door/bird/plant

While walking back home I was drawn to the local flower man and these glorious sunflowers! Just €10... They are now sitting on the kitchen table. Lovely :-)

Sunday we decided to take a walk (turned out to be a very looong walk) to scope out prospective apartments. Our lease is up soon and we've been lurking on daft.ie so we were curious to see where our favorites were actually located. One of the places we liked was very near the Irish Sea, so we took a stroll down Sandymount Strand.

Sitting on the rocks by the Sea... Ahhhh...

By the time we got home it started to rain and we were famished, so we didn't feel one bit bad staying in the rest of the evening and watching a few episodes of the last season of the Sopranos courtesy of Larry and Beth!

Now that's how to have a very pleasant weekend and not spend more than €20.

A Weighty Issue

2009-07-17T11:16:00.004+01:00

It's official. I have gained almost 10 lbs since we moved here last September. I am not a happy camper. Granted, I know I came here a little underweight, and this extra 10 pounds doesn't put me overweight by any means. But this is my blog and I'll complain if I want to! I knew I'd put on a few extra when my jeans started to get tight. Never a good sign. I need to face the facts. I have been eating way too much sugar, and not working out hard enough. Sooooo, time for action. No sugar for me for the next little while and time to amp up the exercise. This is my public statement, so if you see me pop a chocolate in my mouth you have permission smack me. Off to find something healthy for lunch now...

Hunger

2009-07-15T11:56:00.004+01:00

Last night Hubs and I finally got around to watching Hunger, the film about Bobby Sands and the hunger strike in the 1980s in Nor'n Ireland. I have to say, I was a little afraid to watch it, because, it's one of those movies that you already know the ending and, well, it's depressing.

It was definitely depressing but incredibly well done. There is a scene in particular that I thought was amazing. It was where Bobby is talking to the priest about his decision to go on the strike. You can tell that the whole 15 minute scene was done in one take, with one camera. Really powerful stuff. I also found myself holding my breath because I could so easily imagine the stench of the prison cells... I definitely recommend the film. Go rent it. But I suggest not eating popcorn and chocolate during... you will feel bad.

Our Very American Date

2009-07-13T12:01:00.004+01:00

Note: the following activities are not recommended for tourists.

Hubs and I were missing home a bit last weekend so our Saturday was filled with some of the things we associate with our home country.

We decided to take a short train ride to the Dundrum Town Centre which boasts the only American-like mall that I know of in Ireland (aka: lots of stores, shops, a cinema and restaurants in one big building). We first walked around the mall dreaming about buying a TV and an i-pod docking station (neither of which we have - yes, we are living in the dark ages). After a couple hours of that we went to see the much anticipated Brüno.

The movie was exactly what we expected. Same format as his last movie, Borat, and even more lude, ridiculous and offensive! My jaw was pretty much on the floor throughout the whole movie - but I still thought it was hilarious. I just don't get how this wasn't an 18 and up film! There was a ton of full frontal and I sure as heck wouldn't want my 16 year old kid watching it! Yikes!

After the movie we got dinner at the famous TGI Friday's to round out our very American day. It wasn't very good though :-( I had a mushy veggie burger and Justin had a regular burger. He wasn't very impressed with his either.

At about 7 pm we walked home in the very Irish rain. All in all it was a great day with my hubby (who, by the way, I've been married to for 10 months today!) !

60 things.... copied and pasted from Beth

2009-07-10T16:18:00.003+01:00

The following survey was lovingly copied from my dear friend Beth's blog. I got sick of looking at my previous depressing post!

60 Things You Can’t Possibly Know About Me

1. What is in the back seat of your car right now?
No car.

2. When was the last time you threw up?
About a month ago from a tiny bout of the flu

3. What’s your favorite word or phrase?
Certainly.

4. Name 3 people who made you smile today?
Hubs, my sister (via email), and a guy that delivered our new boardroom table at work. That one was probably a fake smile though.

5. What were you doing at 8 am this morning?
Just getting up.

6. What were you doing 30 minutes ago?
Downloading a new sitemap to our webmaster

8. Have you ever been to a strip club?
No.

9. What is the last thing you said aloud?
Cool, thanks.

10. What is the best ice cream flavor?
Ben & Jerry’s Oatmeal cookie chunk (sadly it's in the flavour graveyard now) :(

11. What was the last thing you had to drink?
Water.

12. What are you wearing right now?
Skinny jeans, rolled up, birks, a coral t-shirt and black cardi

13. What was the last thing you ate?
Strawberry yogurt

14. Have you bought any new clothing items this week?
I bought shoes from Karen Millen last Sunday (they were 70% off!!)

15. When was the last time you ran?
I don't run so much anymore. I walk. I frequently run across the street though. I hate waiting for the pedestrian green light.

16. What’s the last sporting event you watched?
Hub's football game

17. If you could go anywhere in the world, where would you go?
I want to go to Italy right now, and stay for 2 weeks.

19. Ever go camping?
I love not camping. I did love it back in the day though!!

20. Have you ever lost anything down a toilet?
Um, yes, actually last weekend I dropped my phone in a toilet at Stephen's Green Shopping Centre. And I stuck my hand in to retrieve it. It was the grossest thing ever, but my phone survived. Don't worry it's been disinfected!!

22. What is your guilty pleasure?
What isn’t? I love to read teen fiction, and watch sappy chick flicks, and will flip through any magazine ever printed. And eat chocolate while doing all of these things. (Beth - I'm leaving your answer because it is perfect!)

23. Do you use smiley faces on the computer a lot?
All. The. Time. :-D

24. Do you drink your soda from a straw?
If I have the choice, I always opt for a straw.

25. What did your last text message say?
"OK hubs, love u!"

26. Are you someone’s best friend?
Yes.

27. What are you doing tomorrow?
Going for a walk with Kara in the morn, then going to Dundrum for some shopping and a movie

28. Where is your mom right now?
Probably at her house. She has Fridays off, the lucky thing.

29. Look to your left, what do you see?
Susan's desk and other office type things.

30. What color is your watch?
Silver

31. What do you think of when you think of Australia?
Justin's Aunt Di - one of the most awesome people I've ever met!

32. Ever ridden on a roller coaster?
Yes. A small one that Rob tried to tell me was “tiny” and then really wasn’t.

33. Birthstone?
Topaz. I used to hate it but I really love it now! P.S. Beth, pearls are awesome and so classic!

34. Do you go in at a fast food place or just hit the drive through?
Car or not, we normally go in.

35. Do you have any friends on Facebook that you actually hate?
No.

36. Do you have a dog?
No, not enough room in our place :(

37. Last person you talked to on the phone?
Boardroom table guy

38. Have you met anyone famous?
Yes.

39. Any plans today?
Finnish work, go home eat curry for dinner and watch a movie.

40. From whom did you get this?
Stole it from Beth

41. Are you happy?

Yes.

42. Where are you right now?
In the office

43. Biggest annoyance in your life right now?
My J-O-B

44. Last song listened to?
I don't remember.

45. Last movie you saw?
The Jane Austen Book Club, and I loved it!

46. Are you allergic to anything?
Nope, not to my knowledge.

47. Favorite pair of shoes you wear all the time?
My birks are becoming my faves. They are the most comfortable shoes I own. I also enjoy my yellow patent flats.

48. Are you jealous of anyone?
Not really.

49. Are you married?
Yes.

50. Is anyone jealous of you?
I couldn't possibly know that.

51. What time is it?
4:44 GMT.

52. Do any of your friends have children?
Yes.

53. Do you eat healthy?
I try to, but sometimes I fall off the wagon!

54. What do you usually do during the day?
Work.

55. Do you hate anyone right now?
No.

56. Do you use the word ‘hello’ daily?

I would say I do most days

57. How many kids do you want when you’re older?
As many as I’m meant to have.

58. How old will you be turning on your next birthday?
26

59. Have you ever been to Six Flags?
Nope - Cedar Point is where it's at!

60. How did you get one of your scars?
Bunionectomy

He would be 18 today...

2009-06-30T19:03:00.002+01:00

My brother James, that is. My mom had James when I was 7 years old, and he came three weeks early - seemingly the picture of health. After a short while the doctors realised something was wrong and whisked him away for tests. They found out he had a serious heart defect that would require open heart surgery when he was a fragile two weeks old. He died on the operating table that day, but in his two weeks of life he was loved and held, sung to and rocked by his mom and dad and sisters.

It's best not to try to understand why things like this happen, but to hope that one day we'll meet again in a better place.

Happy Birthday, little angel!

My dad, the hero

2009-06-30T09:13:00.004+01:00

I know - another post about my dad so soon after Father's Day! But the following event is just too amazing not to share... in my dad's words....

"Last week a friend and co-worker came in to work and had a heart attack at the time clock. It was a team effort, but I placed the pad of the AED on him. He was in fibrillation. I shocked him once, then did 4 cycles of CPR. Thank God he came back to us. Stressful, but thankful of how it turned out. They e-vacted him to GR, inserted a stint and is doing well now (except for the crack ribs) Just did what I was trained to do."

I'm so proud of him! Not many people would be able to be so calm under pressure.... Also, hats off to the other guys responsible for helping to resuscitate the heart-attack victim.

Here's another picture of the man of the hour. This photo was taken at the Grand Rapids Airport when my dad returned back from his time in Iraq.

Date Night

2009-06-28T10:51:00.003+01:00

It had been a while since the Hubs and I had a designated date night at a nice restaurant so we decided we would start dressing up and going out the last weekend of every month (haha, that's when payday is). Last night was the start of our new tradition; we decided on Hugo's on Marion Row. We've passed by this quaint restaurant with the light turquoise front multiple times, and have been meaning to go for a while. Oh - I should also tell you what I wore, because I had it planned out for the whole week!

Royal blue Banana Republic shift dress

Black tights

Cream heels (tall mary janes) from Topshop

Long string of pearls

Nice, no?

So, back to Hugo's. We stepped inside and were very impressed by the "old world" atmosphere. In fact, it was so old world that it was literally boiling in there! No air conditioning (per usual in Dublin). We didn't complain much about that, though, and enjoyed the chilled white wine, which cooled us down a bit. We both had the calamari to start (which we agreed was the best part of this visit) and then hubs had the steak and I had the duck for our mains. We weren't blown away, but it was pretty tasty all in all. We didn't linger in the restaurant too long because of the heat, so we got the check and went for a stroll through Stephen's Green and down Grafton St.

At this point, we were so satisfied... we were full of yummy food, enjoying the wonderful weather and each other's company. And then... as we were coming up Dawson St. past Hodgis Figgus (a great bookstore) Justin got stopped by an older Irish gent who started talking about one of the books in the window. After about 15 minutes, I walked over to gather my husband and move on, but this guy would NOT stop talking! We tried to leave, by saying politely "we better be going..." etc. but he would keep us there by saying "oh, just one more thing." He mentioned how he loves Americans, probably because they are too polite to say "SHUT UP AND LEAVE ME ALONE, MAN!" Like an Irish person would no doubt do. So, after listening to this man's monologue for about 50 minutes total we were finally able to escape. What a pleasant end to our date night!

One with Nature

2009-06-26T09:49:00.003+01:00

After a two+ year hiatus from practicing yoga, I am back at it. And let me tell you, it feels great. Yoga is the best way to relax naturally and relive tension you didn't even know you had. The best part about this particular class is that it is outdoors! What better way to meditate than breathing in the fresh air in a gorgeous setting. Also a bonus: the instructor, Matt, is wonderful! He does classes at both Herbert Park (very close to my work and home) and Stephen's Green (in the city centre) a few days a week and on Saturdays. I am standing taller and breathing easier already :-)

Most Valuable Husband - I mean Player

2009-06-22T09:09:00.003+01:00

Congratulations to my super athletic husband for winning the title of MVP for his season of American Football at Trinity College. I am so proud! My hubby managed to balance a full time PhD, 2 part time jobs and a [sometimes needy] wife for 8 months straight!

Love you baby!

Happy Father's Day!

2009-06-21T14:03:00.003+01:00

Happy Father's Day to the best Dad I know. A dad that just married married off both daughters within 9 months time. A dad that has been mercilessly picked on by a female dominated household for 25 years (Even our pets were girls)! A dad that taught me to horseback ride, how to defend myself (using ME as the test dummy!), how to survive in the wilderness... and countless other life lessons. Here's to you Dad, thank for all the great memories. I love you :-)

St. Patrick's Day at Z's 2008

The boys enjoying a Christmas Cigar in 2007

A family Vacation to Yosemite, 2000(?)

Chasing Sunshine

2009-06-05T04:45:00.004+01:00

If you didn't know already, Ireland has been basking in the glorious sun for about a week now. That's 7 DAYS without rain. Or clouds for that matter! Some say that was our summer and to prepare for a June, July & August of rain and mist. Well, I'm not quite ready for summer to be over, so if you need me I'll be chasing the sunshine to Michigan, USA.

P.S. Yes, it is 4:45 in the morning here. I am too excited to sleep. In a matter of hours I get to see some of my favorite people on Earth:

If you're wondering why we're wearing the same shirts

This was my mom & dad's 25th anniversary trip to Chicago

(Picture taken at Train Station in Battle Creek)

This is Bliss

2009-05-31T21:44:00.004+01:00

This is the epitome of our bank holiday weekend. Lots of sun and relaxation! This is the life!!

Woe is Me

2009-05-27T15:59:00.002+01:00

I woke up with a headache that has not gone away. And now the cleaning lady is in the office making all sorts of noise and wearing more perfume than any person should ever wear.

I really just want Friday, June 5th to be here already. That is my magic day.

Hopefully my trip to the gym will get some enorphins flowing and make me a happy person again.

My new Nickname

2009-05-26T16:25:00.003+01:00

So, I have a new nickname, given to me by one of my very dear friends, Liz. I know you're dying to know what it is:

Meggles.

Love it!

Thanks Liz! Also, Thanks for inviting me to your awesome Hen Party in Copenhagen. I loved every bit of it!

Finally en route to Denmark after a 5 hour delay!

Lovely Copenhagen

The ABCs of moi

2009-05-08T11:06:00.002+01:00

Stolen from Liz and Beth :-)

Artistic Talent: Let's put it this way, In eighth grade my BFF Laura and I made a lemon still life out of Styrofoam. I also made an awesome paper mache giraffe that won first prize at the Ionia Free Fair, and someone wanted to buy it. Hmm... maybe I should rethink my career choice...

Birthplace: Grand Rapids, MI

Career Aspirations at Age 6: I wanted to be a movie star, of course. My sister wanted to be "the sister of a famous movie star." I think she had the right idea - leech off someone else's fame and fortune!

Dreams, Recurring: I remember one particular one that a werewolf was chasing me through an old warehouse... frightening!

Elementary School, name of: Boyce, Jefferson, & Rather. Same town, though.

Fabrics and Materials, favorite to wear on body: Anything that is 100% natural. Polyester is the devil.

Gym, work out at one?: Sure do. It's called Jackie Skelly. Sounds pretty girlie huh?

Happy Memory: Weekends at "the property," summer deck nights at mom & dad's, my wedding day. Sorry, I can't pick just one.

Introvert or Extrovert?: I can't pick. Some days I'm an extrovert and others I'm an absolute introvert.

Jewelry/Trinkets Worn Regularly: The only piece of jewelry I wear regularly is my engagement ring and wedding band

Killer App, Favorite: Olive oil and bread

Latest Book Read: Just finished We Need To Talk About Kevin - excellent read.

Medications (Rx), regular: None at the moment

Nickname(s), current: Meg, and a million other variations of Megan

Operating System of Choice (for desktop): Windows XP (Suck it, Vista.) <--------- exactly, Liz.

Pets, current: None, that's sad.

Q-word, favorite: Quite

Role Models, current: Grandma Terry and mom & dad

Sleepwear, typical: Pajama bottoms and a cami or t-shirt

Typing Speed: I have no clue. But I don't not type with my fingers on the right keys which probably hinders my performance.

University Degree(s): Bachelor of Science in Interpersonal & Public Communication

Vegetarian, are you one: I love eating animals.

Weather, favorite: Sunny, dry, and 75 degrees Farenheit

X-e's you're on speaking terms with, numbers/percentage of: Zero.

Yard/Rummage Sales, do you go?: Love them! You never know what treasures you'll find.

Zen Moments: Being on a boat on Higgin's Lake. At the end of the day in hubs' arms.

Home Sweet Home

2009-04-18T16:07:00.003+01:00

Things I can't wait to do/eat/see when I'm back in Michigan in June (in no particular order)

Jimmy Johns Beach Club
Little Caesar's Hot & Ready pizza
Deck night with mom & dad
Meeting baby Penelope
Kelly's wedding
Target
Meijer
Banana Republic
Wendy's
On the Border
Edy's slow churned ice cream
Warm weather
Lake Michigan

Hurry up and get here, June!!

I Live for the Weekend

2009-04-16T11:31:00.018+01:00

And now for the update you've all been waiting for...

Hubs and I had an exceptional long Easter weekend. For me, the weekend started on Thursday night when CM and I went to see a movie. We meant to go see Two Lovers...

But I totally screwed up and got the times wrong. Silly me. There weren't many other choices so we ended up seeing The Boat that Rocked.

Which CM had already seen. I felt like such a dummy. Anyway - it was a pretty good movie. Funny and different from anything I've seen recently. All you stateside friends will have to wait until August to judge for yourself :-) (Finally, a movie I can see BEFORE you!)

Friday was another great day. Woke up to do some cleaning (boring I know, but seeing as I'm domestically disabled, I like to point these things out). Went for an awesome lunch with KD and new friend LT at Roly's cafe which turned out to be both inexpensive and delicious (a rarity in these parts)! We decided we were not done enjoying each others company so we wandered into town (but not without some photos along the way...)

Pretty cherry tree on Baggot St.

KD, LT & myself

We had a wonderful afternoon wandering around the shops on and around Grafton St. We even got free makeovers from the Bare Minerals people at BT2! KD, being the social butterfly that she is, had to run off to another engagement, but LT and I started the quest to find alcohol on Good Friday (the whole city is dry on this day) we are fully aware of the sinners that we are! We were unsuccessful in our mission, so we went back to LT's apartment where there was beer and wine aplenty. I meant to stay for a short while... but was having too much fun with the Googlers.

Eventually I made it home (via taxi) and hoped that my head wouldn't hurt too badly for Hub's football game the next day!

Thankfully I woke up with only a mild headache and sour stomach the next day, and since it was self inflicted, I didn't complain. Time for the big game! I made the trip to Santry (all the way in BFE) with KH's brother (also KH). Thankfully it was perfect weather for a good ol' American football game (I'm sort of a fair-weather fan). The Trinity boys lost the game but will play UCD again two more times in the next couple of weeks. I think they can pull it off!

Easter Sunday we were invited to join KD & TB for a lovely Easter dinner (along with TB's mom and sister). KD was the perfect hostess, serving up delicious lamb and salmon. YUM! I made sure to inform everyone that the lamb we were eating was a male. Apparently,

farmers only need one ram per 50 sheep, so the little boy lambs are the poor cute things taken to slaughter. So cute, but so delicious.

We sent the boys out to Kiely's to get ice, but I guess they had to make it fresh... it took them about an hour to get home.

TB & Hubs (out for ice)

Thank you for a wonderful time! It's people like you that make being away from family on holidays much more bearable.

Most of Monday (had work off this day as well) was spent cleaning and relaxing, not to mention dreading the workweek, albeit a short one, ahead.

And now it's almost the weekend again - hooray!!

Megology

2009-04-08T16:58:00.002+01:00

Due to a lack of inspiration: A fun survey completed by yours truly. YOU do it too!

Let others know a bit more about yourself, re-post this as 'ology' followed by your name.

FOODOLOGY

What is your salad dressing of choice?
Ranch (Hidden Valley) and boy do I miss it!

What is your favourite sit down restaurant?
Maia

What food could you eat every day for two weeks and not get sick of?
Ice cream

What are your pizza toppings of choice?
I love a slice loaded with yummy veggies, but particularly enjoy mushroom, tomato, feta & spinach

What do you put on your toast?
These days butter and honey. I've also been known to spread peanut butter and add sliced bananas.

TECHNOLOGY

How many televisions are in your house?
ZERO

What color cell phone do you have?
Black with a little bit of blue

Do you have an iPod?
Yes, I've been meaning to update it, actually.

BIOLOGY

Are you right or left-handed?
Right

Have you ever had anything removed from your body?
A mole from my arm when I was a baby

What is the last heavy item you lifted?
Ummm... I carried home a pretty heavy bag of groceries the other day.

Have you ever been knocked unconscious?
Yes. It was not my finest moment. I was playing flag football in 9th grade gym class and accidentally ran into the wall.

BULLOLOGY

If it were possible, would you want to know the day you were going to die?
Nope not one bit.

If you could change your name, what would you change it to?
Although I don't love my name, I would never change it. It's part of who I am :-)

Would you drink an entire bottle of hot sauce for $1000?
You bet.

DUMBOLOGY?

How many pairs of flip-flops do you own?
I used to own several in college. Now I'm down to one pair. And I only wear them at the beach.

Last time you had a run in with the cops?
I can't even remember.

Last person you talked to?
I just spoke with my boss via the phone

Last person you hugged?
Hubs, this morning when I was leaving for work.

FAVORITOLOGY

Season?
Autumn. I hate that winter comes after it, but love everything else about the season. The smells, the temperature, the colours, I could go on and on!

Holiday?
Thanksgiving

Day of the week?
Friday nights are my fave! The whole weekend is ahead :-)

CURRENTOLOGY

Missing someone?
Always!

Mood?
Mostly happy

What are you listening to?
Just people moving around upstairs

Watching?
The clouds roll in and the pretty tree in bloom outside my office window.

Worrying about?
The Irish budget

RANDOMOLOGY

First place you went this morning?
Off to work at 9am

What is the last movie you saw?
In the Cinema - Doubt with Meryl Streep (excellent, by the way!) On DVD - Singin' in the Rain

Do you smile often?
Yes, I'm American

Sleeping Alone Tonight?
No :-)

OTHER-OLOGY

Do you always answer your phone?
Generally, unless I'm with a friend. It would be rude to answer, in my opinion.

4:00 in the morning and you get a text. Who is it?
I don't get texts at the hour. My husband, on the other hand may be getting one from one of the boys... most likely Kieran.

If you could change your eye colour, what color would it be?
I would love it if my eyes were a bit more green

What flavour do you add to your drink at Sonic?
Orange cream slush rocks my world

Do you own a digital camera?
Yes.

Have you ever had a pet fish?
Yes. They are boring. Unless you have a huge salt water aquarium and someone to take care of it.

Favourite Christmas song?
Silent Night

What's on your wishlist for your birthday?
My birthday isn't for a while. But I imagine I'd like to forgo a gift and go on a trip.

Can you do pushups?
Yup

Chinups?
Like, one.

Does the future make you more nervous or excited?
Excited

Do you have any saved texts?
If I do, it's not on purpose.

Ever been in a car wreck?
Yes. My little Saturn was totaled

Do you have an accent?
I sure do. Representing the Mid-west

What is the last song that made you cry?
Probably our wedding song. DMB Steady as we Go

Plans tonight?
Gym, them home, dinner and relax time

Have you ever felt like you hit rock bottom?
No

Name 3 things you bought yesterday
I don't think I bought anything! Amazing!

Have you ever been given roses?
Yes

Current hate right now?
This budget ordeal

Met someone who changed your life?
I think all people we meet do, in a way.

How will you bring in the New Year?
Who knows, that's ages away

What song represents you?
I couldn't say.

Name three people that will complete this?
Liz, Kara & Beth?

Would you go back in time, given the chance?
Absolutely

Have you ever dated someone longer than a year straight?
Sure have

Do you have any tattoos/piercings?
Yes, a small shamrock on my lower back

Will you be in a relationship four months from now?
Yes

Does anyone love you?
Yes

Would you be a pirate?
In a second

What songs do you sing in the shower?
Hahaha. I can't believe I'm admitting this but recently I've been waking up with the Winnie the Pooh theme song in my head... "Gotta get up, gotta get going, gonna see a friend of mine..."

Ever had someone sing to you?
Yes, several people

When did you last cry?
I don't remember

Do you like to cuddle?
LOVE it

Have you held hands with anyone today?
Not yet

Who was the last person you took a picture of?
Probably Justin

What kind of music did you listen to in elementary school?
Whatever was on the radio while I was on the bus or in the car

Do you believe in staying close with your ex's?
No

Are most of your friends new or old?
Both!

Do you like pulp in your orange juice?
No, I hate chewing my orange juice.

What is something your friends make fun of you for?
This list is endless, and not limited to friends, but also family and colleagues!

Don't drink and blog

2009-04-04T19:18:00.003+01:00

Oops. Too late. I'm breaking my rule. I am waiting for Justin to come home from football/ the gym after a day of errands and (of course) a wander down Grafton St. I sometimes forget to eat when I am out and about so the lovely Pinot Grigio I am sipping is going straight to my head! Originally, I was planning on cleaning the house after I went to the gym this morning but the sun was out. And when the sun is out in Ireland you do not stay inside and clean. That's my personal mantra anyway.

I was almost home when I heard a little old woman yell down to me from her building steps, "excuse me, miss, can you help me?" I love little old ladies, so was quick to oblige - when I went up the stairs to meet her I found out that she needed someone to zip up the back of her top, as she was going out to a fancy dinner. I went inside and found out her name is Mary and she's 75. She was bright, bubbly and very smiley. I instantly liked her. She has lived all over the world... Manhattan, San Diego, Vienna, London; and is from the West of Ireland. I left telling her that she looked beautiful and to give a shout if she ever needs me to zip her top again. I really hope we meet again soon. I think we could be good friends.

Celebrating Spring

2009-04-03T14:22:00.002+01:00

The past couple of days spring has most definitely sprung here in Dublin. Flowers are in full bloom, the buds on trees are turning into baby leaves, the birds are happily chirping and the sun doesn't set until 8 pm. So today, when I could get no one to join me for lunch in Stephen's Green, I celebrated on my own. By buying a very sweet pair of black peep toed heels from Office. I needed new black shoes for work as my current shoes are in a horrid state. The streets of this city eat my shoes! So, see below for the most recent addition to my shoe collection. Are they not lovely?

Fun with Meg and Just

2009-03-22T17:59:00.005Z

We have had a a most enjoyable weekend and as usual, it went by way too fast. Friday night was unexpectedly fun as we decided to go to a pub near our house called 51 for a beer and a burger. Normally on Friday nights we stay in, too exhausted from the workweek to do anything, but we managed to stay awake and enjoy one another's company.

Saturday we both got up early and went to our respective gyms. I am so proud of myself as I haven't been to the gym on a weekend in forever! Since the weather was nice, we decided to hop on the DART and go to Howth, a pretty little fishing town. We walked down the west pier and admired the marina. We were very happy to see the seals were lingering about near the docks waiting for fish to be thrown in by tourists just having visited one of the local seafood shops. We lunched at a restaurant called DEEP, where we each had the best seafood chowder ever in life! It wasn't too thick and was chock full of salmon, mussels, prawns, and I believe one other fish... absolutely divine. I would have been satisfied with just that but we had a huge deep seafood platter after - smoked salmon, calamari, prawns, salad, crab cakes... YUM! Our intention was to be back to D4 in time to watch the 6 nations Ireland v. Wales match, but we didn't quite make it, although we did keep tabs on the score. Way to go Ireland!!

Me and my new friends!

Howth

Sunday, of course Justin had football practice, so I went to Grafton St. to see the lovely spring stock... Karen Millen has some really lovely pieces out right now - and good sales too! I managed to get my hand on some really cute patent yellow flats. I've been looking for a pair for a while and these are just perfect! They are the icing on the cake of a pretty perfect weekend.

Karen Millen shoes

Happy Birthday, Mom!

2009-03-05T16:10:00.005Z

Since I'll be a bit preoccupied with guests on the actual day (March 7th), I'm going to wish my beautiful mother a fantastic 50th birthday a few days early.

Mom & Dad's 25th Anniversary trip to Chicago (Shirt reads "Aug. 6 1982")

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, MOM! You are such an amazing, strong, passionate individual. I want to be just like you when I grow up. See you soon!!!

Love,

your Meggie-two-shoes

Huger, South Carolina

2009-03-05T10:32:00.003Z

Here's how it works:

1 - Go to Wikipedia. Hit “random”or click http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Special:Random The first randomWikipedia article you get is the name of your band.

2 - Go to Quotations Page and select "random quotations"or click http://www.quotationspage.com/random.php3 The last four or five words of the very last quote on the page is the title of your first album.

3 - Go to Flickr and click on “explore the last seven days”or click http://www.flickr.com/explore/interesting/7days Third picture, no matter what it is, will be your album cover.

4 - Use Photoshop or something similar to put it all together.

5 - Put the result (or result) on your blog

Your turn!!

Watch out, Dublin!

2009-03-04T16:44:00.004Z

I am so excited I could just pee myself! Three of my most favorite ladies in the the world are coming to visit us in less than two days! My mom, sister, and aunt Carol will arrive in Dublin at 7:55 am on Friday morning. Dublin Ladies: Will you post your favorite tourist "must do in Dublin?"

Aunt Carol, Mom (Mary)

Kelly Jo

High maintenance doesn't begin to cover it

2009-02-26T12:13:00.006Z

I have to do a little product rave because I was just on Anne Taintor's website looking for gift ideas and remembered how much I LOVE her stuff. It never fails to make me smile and all of the products make excellent gifts! They offer magnets, pill boxes, note pads, luggage tags, etc - each with a different funny blip and vintage picture. Here are a couple of my faves:

Dublin girls: you can get her stuff at Avoca! In the states I've found Ann Taintor trinkets at bookstores and boutiques :-)

Grumpy Girl

2009-02-25T09:52:00.003Z

I'm sorry. I can't contain it anymore. I. Hate. My. Job. I know I should be thankful to have one in this godforsaken economy, but can't I be thankful and not happy at the same time? Why do I dislike it, you ask? Because it is painfully boring, mostly. I basically put myself to sleep writing the marketing pieces. The other thing is that my job is very lonely. I am the one and only marketing person, so I have no one to bounce ideas off of, and I work with all men on top of that. In fact, most of the people in the software industry are men - I have nothing against men, but a little yin and yang would be nice.

I was extra grumpy this morning and wasn't very nice to hubs. I feel like I'm starting to get envious that he is so passionate about what he's doing, while I'm miserable at work. I don't want to start resenting him for loving what he does, because I think it's fantastic that he's pursuing his dream.

I'm not sure if I should start looking for another job, or just roll with the punches at my current workplace. It is good money. But money is not everything is it? Actually, yes, right now I need to make as much as I'm making now, so money does matter quite a bit. So my options are: 1. Stay in the job which is a great resume builder but is making me a b*tch. 2. Start a new job hunt where I would only accept a position with an equal or greater salary.

Hmm... I guess it can't hurt to keep my eyes peeled for jobs. I think I will. At least I'll feel like I'm being proactive.

When I came home from work last night...

2009-02-21T10:35:00.005Z

This is what was waiting for me:

Thanks, Hubs!! You're the best :-)

A First

2009-02-19T09:32:00.004Z

I was at Tesco last night at the busiest time (right after work) which I normally avoid at all costs; but be were out of food so it had to be done. So, I finish getting the goods and wait in the painfully long check out line. I say to the cashier "I have a bag at the bottom of my basket somewhere..." and proceed to dig it out. After I get it he says "I can do the bagging," at which point my mouth drops in shock. Number one - it's really busy in there so normally they just want as little contact with the customer as possible and number two - even if it's not busy, it's very unusual that they'll bag your items. So at first I declined and said "Oh no, that's okay, I can do it." and he persisted! So, long story short. The cashier bagged my stuff at Tesco yesterday. It was a good day.

I've seen London I've seen France...

2009-02-17T15:19:00.008Z

Hubs and I returned to Dublin from the big city across the Irish Sea Yesterday afternoon. We saw most of what I wanted to see (Hubs has been already on several occasions). Friday night we went to see Les Miserables at Queen's Theatre in London's West End, which was absolutely brilliant. The venue is quite intimate and the acoustics were fantastic! I've still got the music running through my head.

On Saturday we woke up early to take advantage of all the daylight hours to see the city. We started out the day by going to breakfast with the man Justin works for at Oxford. Please ask me about this encounter because it is too controversial to write on a public blog! We carried on after that and went to Trafalgar Square first which, as you can see was bustling with people!

The National Gallery is right there so we popped in there to see the art, which was fantastic. I especially enjoyed the Monet pieces they have. We went on from there to see Big Ben and then Westminster Abby - which was by far my favorite part of the trip. We opted to do the audio tour, which goes into detail about all of the nooks and crannies. They do not allow you to take photos of the inside - but here's one of the outside:

I'm not going to drag you through the rest of our trip. Just know that we had an amazing time and can't wait to go back!

Six Nations Rugby FAQ for Women

2009-02-11T14:49:00.001Z

Hello and welcome to the Six Nations Rugby FAQ for girlfriends and wives.

Please note that this FAQ is not intended for women who actually play and understand rugby. Such admirable and formidable women are capable of talking tactics and the like, and are also welcome to call over and help herself do the washing up at half time. There are also clothes to be ironed.

Frequently Asked Questions

My man said the match doesn't kick off until 2:30. Why is he leaving for the pub now when it's only 12 midday?

He has to get a seat for the "build up", which starts roughly two hours before kick off. The build up involves former players embarrassing themselves with a series of hilarious gaffes, wooden comment and bland observations. He finds this interesting. Also if he leaves early he'll get a good meal into his belly. And finally there won't be any legs in the way of the hoover - a nice bonus there for you.

My husband is watching the game at home. He said the match wouldn't kick off until 2:30. It's now 1pm and he's watching a chat show of some sort?

Again, you are experiencing the build-up first hand. This is the "pre-match discussion", which is rather like a rugby tupperware party. If you look closely you will see former players you may actually recognise because they were once good looking men, but now require a piece of the table to be cut away at dinner time to accommodate them.

Also, he seems to be watching rugby from last year!

This is an essential part of the build-up. Imagine it as rugby's answer to "Previously on Desperate Housewives..." You've seen it all before, but it bears repeated viewing.

My boyfriend is at the game and I am trying to get in contact with him. I've called a number of times and am worried about him. I'm getting read receipts but he won't return my texts! I'm worried about him! I've called his friends who are with him and they are not answering either!

The mobile phone coverage at games is poor due to the mobile masts being overloaded. This is complicated - like electricity and cars and things - and will only confuse you. I'm sure he is trying to call you back but there is no coverage. Don't panic, I'm sure he or the emergency services will call immediately once the game concludes.

My husband has returned from the game and now wants to watch the tape of the game he has just been at! Why could he possibly want to do this?

Have you ever watched your wedding video? But you were there. Why are you watching it again?

How long is the rugby going on for? My boyfriend seems to be watching another game now!

The rugby will be on all day, with one match after another. The media corporations now dictate the schedule and there is nothing the lowly rugby fan can do about this. Most have petitioned to change this, but to no avail. It's a hot topic in rugby right now and we're hopeful the situation will be resolved soon. There might be highlights on later as well. Plus the sports news reports.

My husband is going to a game abroad and I was thinking that I might go too and we might go to the local Ikea (I looked it up and it's just around the corner) the morning of the game to get a few things?

That's a great idea, but unfortunately Ikea always closes the weekend of a rugby international, no matter what the country. It's because eccentric Ikea founder Ingvar Kamprad despises rugby for some reason - this is another issue all rugby fans are keen to see resolved.

Who are the team wearing blue?

That is either Italy or France. You are noticing them because they are tanned and continental, unlike their pasty-legged opponents who are the team your partner is supporting. Do not undermine his confidence by praising the opposition in any way. The person you are looking at most is probably Frederic Michalak (who is so disappointingly short, trust me).

Why did that happen / why did he do that / what is the referee saying / how are they able to do that / what score is it now / who is he / did my mother call earlier / when do you want to book that holiday?

Sssshh!

Lonley? Not really!

2009-02-10T22:00:00.004Z

With hubs gone this week I was anticipating being bored and lonely. So far, this has not been the case! Don't get me wrong, I miss him dearly - but I have filled my week with lots of socializing and 'me time.' Last night I had a great workout at the gym, came home and watched Circle of Friends, which has been on my list for quite a while. After work today I went into town in search of a pashmina which I found at Marks & Spencer - Love it! then went to Kieran's for a "we miss Justin" party. Hehe. It was very enjoyable! Lots of conversation about training, football and scoring birds. Not to mention the argument over who was the coach in the movie The Mighty Ducks. I could have sworn it was Michael J. Fox, but I was sadly mistaken... it is in fact Emilio Estevez who plays the part. Huh. Who knew! They do look alike, do they not??

Michael J. Fox

Emilio Estevez

Tomorrow I plan on going to the gym after work again and possibly watching another film of my own choosing (hubs and I compromise a lot - let's just say I do not get to watch chick flicks very often!) Thursday I'm looking forward to grabbing a bite to eat (and maybe a pint?) with Kara after work! And then we're already to Friday when I fly out to London to meet my love! This week is shaping up to be pretty darn good :-)

Want it. Need it.

2009-02-09T09:39:00.002Z

Over the weekend I found myself trapped in one of the biggest time suckers ever. Online shopping. I discovered a great site called Smart Bargains with an amazing selection of designer handbags. The Cole Haan below is begging me to adopt it. Wouldn't it be a perfect spring/summer bag? Still trying to justify the purchase.... should I or shouldn't I?!

Pat on the Back

2009-02-06T12:30:00.003Z

Wow - I'm on a roll... two posts in one day!

I am going to go ahead and give myself a pat on the back because I am having a GREAT day at work.

The stars have aligned and I have used my sweet networking skills to set up a fricken awesome meeting for the CEO next week when he's in Boston.

YAY me!

MIA

2009-02-06T10:27:00.002Z

I know, I know. I've been missing in action for two months! This whole blogging thing is strange to me and I am finding it difficult to get used to. I find it hard to believe that anyone would find my daily ramblings amusing or interesting! I guess I'm just self -consious about my writing. I'll try to get over that and start posting on a more regular basis.

Last weekend was one of the best I've had since moving to Dublin. I finally branched out and made an effort to find friends. I'd been lurking on a website called The Nest for a week or so, mostly on the "International Newlywed" board and finally came out and introduced myself and inquired if there were any other "Dublin Nesties" out there. Sure enough, there are about 5 of them! We made plans to meet up that weekend for a girlie movie and lunch. Justin was afriad that it was a ploy for abduction by some 50 year old creeper, but I was felt like these girls could be trusted. I was right - the girls are absoutely great. Funny, kind and welcoming. We saw Revolutionary Road, which was definitely a downer (and in my humble opinion, a bit over-rated), but no matter - I was with my new friends! We proceeded on to lunch at the Hard Rock Cafe and enjoyed yummy food and margarits. I think this outing will definitely become regular.

Justin leaves for London this weekend to do some research at the archives there. So I'll be on my own next week! Sunday I will finally be going to mass at the church I've been wanting to try, St. Mary's. One of the nesties goes there so I'll be meeting her and another for the 9:30 service, and possibly an Irish fry afterward :-) I think it's a great time to start as we're coming into Lent soon... speaking of which... what should I give up this year? I was thinking maybe chocolate - because let's be honest - that would be the biggest sacrifice for me. It's one thing I consume on a daily basis that I don't need. We'll see.

The sun is finally shining in Dublin today. There is a light dusting of snow on the ground and the sidewalks are a bit icy in spots. I almost slipped coming down the stairs from my flat on my way in to work. Thank God I didn't - what a way to start the day!

Part of the System

2008-12-03T16:14:00.003Z

I've got two and half weeks under my belt now at Automsoft and am starting to feel like I belong. The people I work with are very kind, and honest too.. They do not hesitate to tell me how 'American' I am, whenever I say or do something that is, shall we say, an American stereotype. Mostly they are in awe over what a bubbly person I am. Always commenting on how I tell people to 'have a great day' or spin things in a positive way. It's really quite funny! The differences become so much more evident between the cultures when you're the odd one out. My boss was shocked when I told him that I love my in-laws. He thinks Americans throw the word 'love' around too much. He asked too, if I call my mother-in-law 'mom,' which I do. he was shocked over that as well! Thinks it's disrespectful to my own mother. I told him my mother is not afraid of another taking her position - she knows the way I love her :-)
Here are a few slang terms I've come to know...

Dear - expensive
Jumper - sweatshirt or sweater
Vest - undershirt

Waistcoat - vest
Pants - underwear (this one always gets me! Learning to use the word trousers more frequently)
Diary - planner or schedule
Call - to visit
Ring - to phone
Sweet - candy
Gaff - house or apartment
Your man/woman - When speaking of a certain man/woman
Bird - girl
Bollocks - crap (like, 'that's crap!')
Defo - Definitely
Craic (pronounced 'crack') - Good times

So that's just a few of them. It's been fun learning about the culture. I'm doing my best to assimilate while still holding on to what makes me, me.

Justin's friend Daniel, from Germany, has invited us over to his gaff (see, I can be Irish!) for Christmas drinks tonight. Should be fun. Hopefully we meet a few nice people. I've been scouring the internet for Christmas activities to take advantage of in Dublin and have found a few fun ideas. I'll do my best to keep you all posted.

That's all for now, friends.

Lady of Leisure

2008-11-04T14:45:00.000Z

Typical Dublin day today. Cloudy and a bit misty, holding steady at 50* F... This is the sort of weather we'll have for the next 5 months or so. I actually don't mind it! I can wear my wool coat and gloves and feel perfectly comfortable walking around from place to place! Speaking of walking place to place... boy do my feet feel it! I'm guessing I walk a minimum of 3-4 miles per day, and not typically in tennis shoes. Granted, I'm not wearing heels if I know I'll be walking around, the shoes I wear aren't exactly marshmallows. I'm developing a protruding bone on the heel of my right foot that hurts quite a bit! Does anyone have any idea what this is?

I have two weeks until I start working so until then, I am living a guilt free life of leisure, and loving every minute of it! Usually I'll wake up with Justin and have breakfast with him, then just laze around and read for a while while he goes off to the archives. I've just finished Bram Stoker's Dracula, and am now reading The Historian neither of which I could/can put down! So, I'll read for a half hour or so, then write out a few thank you notes from the wedding. My latest project has been printing out wedding pictures from the DVD our photographer sent us and putting them into an album. The photographer will be making us an album as well, but we wanted to make one of our own too. I printed out three of our favorites in 8x10 sepia. They are hanging in the living room side by side and look so pretty!

Our latest exciting news is that we will be having our first visitors at our house at the end of December!! Laura and Nick have purchased their plane tickets and will be here from Dec. 29 through Jan. 7 (7th? Is that right, Laura?) We're already putting together lists of things we want to do with them so they'll go home with a love for dear dirty Dublin :-) (and the rest of Ireland too).

I hope all is well with all of my dear friends and family. Know that you are thought of often, and loved much!

Employed!

2008-11-03T15:29:00.000Z

Well, I did it! After submitting my resume online, and two interviews, I am the newest employee at Automsoft in Ballsbridge, Dublin 4! I will be the marketing executive and assistant to the CEO for this automation company (google 'automation' to learn what it is). The job will involve reviewing current publication pieces and updating them to a current standard, lots of territory research for expansion, and on the assistant to CEO portion of the job, I'll be keeping the boss' schedule in order and things like that. There will be no delivering coffee or shining shoes! Haha. They made it clear that my primary role was to be in the marketing aspect.

That being said, everything is falling into place. We are starting to feel like this is home, which is a fantastic feeling!

Two extremes: Yesterday=crap; Today=marvelous!

2008-10-23T13:24:00.000+01:00

Yesterday was a completely atrocious day! Justin and I woke up at 6 am to bus into the city and wait in line with the masses at the immigration office to register with the Garda. We Shivered in line for 2 hours before we got to the front to be given tickets, numbers 261 & 262. We were told to come back arount 1pm. Not wanting to go far, we found a nice spot to have breakfast and warm up (which, come to think of it, was actually the one bright point in the day!) we wandered back to the office to see what number they were on... still very low. More wandering around... more checking to see the number... this went on, with our patience wearing thin, for hours. In the midst of this, we stumbled upon the big student protest in the streets. Everyone's talking about recession here and so Trinity is going to start having the students pay to go to college (EU citizens as non-EU nationals pay hefty fees already). That's right. If you're a citizen of the EU you can go to University for free. So all these students are whining about having to pay 800 euro a YEAR. Cry me a river! Finally at 4pm we were getting close to our numbers. Ended up getting out of the smelly place at 5pm. Both of us very tired and grumpy. Over 10 hours and 300 euro. Thankfully, Justin made dinner when we got home, finished off a bottle of wine... and things were starting to look a bit better :-)
I didn't mention that after registration with the garda we stopped off at the lab, Justin to do some grading, and I, to apply for more jobs. I applied for a job as a marketing executive for an international company called Automsoft that is less than half a mile from where we live. Low and behold, this morning I get a call asking if I'm available for an interview next week! The job pays well, and would set us up rather nicely! Say a little prayer that this works out for me! On top of that, our internet was delivered today. We don't have a desktop computer yet, but will use Justin's laptop for the time being.

A job on the horizen?

2008-10-21T16:18:00.000+01:00

Belfast yesterday was great fun. It was about a 2 and a half hour drive to The North. Neasa and I walked around the city a bit first and had a nice lunch in a cute little cafe. It was nice to hear a bit of the history behind the city as well (Neasa knows loads about it!) About 10-15 years ago not many wanted to venture there because of the political turmoil. The county, and those surrounding it, were not very well off at all. But you wouldn't know it, being there yesterday! Lots of people were out and about, there are plenty of shops and gorgeous buildings, save the Europa Hotel, which was apparently bombed several times because of it's high status, now it looks like a modern 20 story building. Quite sad.
After a quick view of the city we ventured off to find Ikea, which was no easy feat! Belfast has horrible signage, and that, coupled with two women who have no clue where they're going, is not a good combination! We got turned around a couple of times, but did manage to find our holy grail :-) I tell you what... Ikea is quite an experience!! You walk in the entrance to go upstairs to the showrooms, grab a pencil and order sheet provided, and peruse about at your leisure. When you see something you'd like to buy, write down the number. When you're finished shopping in the showrooms, just head downstairs to the warehouse to find, already packaged and ready to go, what you'd written on your pad. Easy!
Like I said before, I'd been online to see what was available, so I had an idea of what I was looking for. I came home with a great sofa cover (to cover the hideous one that came with our flat) a wonderful black desk, wine glasses, an end table, and a few nice storage containers. Success!
When I returned home Justin and I immediately started to assemble everything - it's like Christmas! That's when I realized that I had grabbed the wrong end table box :-( boo! Since we won't likely be going back to Belfast anytime soon, we'll just have to sell it online. Oh well!
Lately I've been hounding the Irish job database websites and have found a few I'm really interested in. One is a position with RTE as a Public Relations Assistant for the Performance Groups, the other is a Marketing Assistant position at Wyeth Pharmaceuticals. I've applied to both and am waiting on calls! Keep your fingers crossed for me!
Love and miss you all very much...

Feeling Settled

2008-10-18T14:28:00.000+01:00

I had a couple of rough days this week. Missing my friends and of course the family. It's so hard not to call my girls, whether it be to chatter mindlessly, or vent about whatever life's dramas bring on a particular day. I have moments when I'm just plain lonely. I expected that though, and work through the moments by reading or taking a walk... usually they pass and give way to something to look forward to.
Thursday evening was a really great night with my friend, Ciara (Currently my only girlfriend in Dublin). We had an old fashioned girls' night of shopping (I caved and bought 1 thing, on sale of course!) And then went out to a yummy dinner at Wagamamas by St. Stephen's Green. It was very much needed, and cheered me right up!
This Monday I'll be taking a trip to Belfast with our friend Kieran's mom, Neasa. We're going to Ikea :) I've already gone to the website and know exactly what I'll be looking for for the flat! It will be great fun, and I'm really looking forward to getting to know Neasa a bit better, she's a really lovely person.
Earlier in the week I went into the PPS office to apply for a PPS number (similar to a US social security number). I'm actually, as a non-EU citizen, not supposed to be able to get one, but heard from a few people that they sometimes give them out anyway. Sure enough, the woman helping me filled out the paperwork and my number should be in the mail! This should make it a bit easier to get a job!
Today, frustrated with my hair, I went to get my hair cut again (always a sure way to lift the spirits!) Turned out very cute and trendy!! Lots of layers, sweeping bangs, and still a bit longer in the front! Got the seal of approval from Justin too!
I'll do my best to update the blog every few days, as I just realized I actually have a few readers! What fun! Off to wander around Grafton Street and maybe feed the ducks in the park...

The Runaround

2008-10-01T13:44:00.001+01:00

It seems since the beginning of the week I've been getting the runaround from all Irish personnel I ask for help or information about working here as an American. I've been to The Department of Justice, where the man at reception told me that I should go to the Foreign Registration Office (on the other side of town) Went there and realized that Justin and I are planning on registering with the Guard sometime before the 22nd. (completely different thing altogether). Then I tried to go to the US Embassy, only to find out they are only open on Mon, Tues, Thurs & Fri from 8:30-11:30am. (Going back tomorrow morn.) Today I went to The Dept of Enterprise, Trade and Employment where they informed me that there was no one in the building that I could speak to, only a number I could call or a website I could refer to. REALLY? I didn't think of checking your bloody website. Come on people, how stupid to I look?? Also keep in mind that these offices are spread out all over the city!
Tomorrow morning Justin will go with me to The US Embassy, and probably from there back to the Office of Foreign Affairs. Check out this website to read about the new agreement that was signed by the Minister for Foreign Affairs, Michael Martin: Visa deal with US Government. It seems like our only hope at this point!! The only other option would be for me to enroll in a course so that I would be able to work 20 hours or less per week.... and that option would be more to give me something to do than make money. Keep your fingers crossed for us!
Saturday we are off to the French Riviera for our honeymoon!! We are so excited to relax a little and take a break from this huge whirlwind that we have been swirling in since before the wedding!

Foreigner

2008-09-29T14:15:00.000+01:00

Taking a pit stop in an internet cafe at the moment because I've been roaming the city looking for an office I'm convinced does not exist. I'm trying to get more information on a holiday visa, which I originally thought was a 3 month work visa. Apperently you can obtain one for up to 2 years. We'll see.

Today is my first solo day in the city! Justin went into the college this morning and I got up and attepted to go for a run. My run was cut short because it was raining and I couldn't find the park I was looking for. . . I know, what a surprise!

Safe and sound

2008-09-24T20:46:00.000+01:00

Justin and I arrived in Dublin Monday morning at 8:00 am to a bright, brisk day - perfect for jumping into the search for our new home and begining the endless string of errand running. We didn't even bother with the bus into the city because we had so much luggage; went straight for a van taxi instead. We arrived at our hotel in the City Center and didn't expect to check in until that afternoon but were fortunate to put our things into a room that had just been cleaned, ours for the next four days, while we search for a place to live!

After calling a few property owners about veiwings we were our way to finding home. First up: A flat on Blackhorse Avenue. We got a taxi to the area, as it was a little outside the city, and asked the driver what his opinion of the area was... to which he replied "Ahh... it's a bit dodgy in spots, to be honest..." Great. We coninued on regardless and set out to see the veiwing through. Turns out the taxi driver was right on with his opinion. The place was dirty and gross and most definitely in a rough neighborhood, although the apartment did boast it's own "private lane" which to me looking more like a scary back ally! Needless to say, that landlord got a big fat "no" from us!

Not feeling too defeated, we trudged on to our next meeting is Ballsbridge (D4), which is quite well know for being a very safe, nice part of town - we were very optimistic! We found the place to be within a gorgeous Georgian building with a bright blue door. We walked into the building and were still impressed with the very nice entryway. As we opened the door to apartment number 9 we held our breath, hoping for the best... and it was love at first sight. Although it's very small, it's exactly what we had in mind. It's bright, quiet and clean and has loads of potential. After asking a few questions we made our decision to take it, right then and there.

That said, yesterday and today we've been setting up house. It's 9:00 now and I'm really tired from a long day's work! Justin and I are relaxing at his friend, Kieran's house. Well, actually they are playing a football video game and I'm using the internet :-)

I have a feeling that this is going to be a fantastic couple of years!